6 Things Seniors Should Consider Before Marrying
Seniors in particular think about marriage with an understandable degree of concern. Here are some steps to take to make relationships easier to navigate and protect your financial future.
Seniors in particular think about marriage with an understandable degree of concern. Maybe your last relationship ended in a divorce, or it’s been a long time since they were married. However, according to a recent article from MSN, “Planning to remarry after a divorce? 6 tips to protect your financial future,” there are some steps to take to make relationships easier to navigate and protect your financial future.
Not all of them are easy, but all are worthwhile.
1. No marrying without a prenup. Everyone thinks of prenups as pertaining to divorce. They can address divorce, but prenups do much more. They clarify property in the marriage, such as whether it will belong to one spouse or to the other or both. Prenups clarify many issues: full financial clarity, financial expectations, the marital rights of the couple and clear details on what would happen in the worst-case scenario. This is especially important to putting each of the couples’ respective families at ease as they marry. Getting all this out in the open before you say “I do” makes it much easier to go forward.
2. Trust…but verify. Estate planning ensures that assets pass as you want. A revocable living trust set up during your lifetime can be used to ensure your assets pass to your offspring. Unlike a will, the provisions of a revocable trust are effective not just when you die but in the event of incapacity. A living trust can provide for the trust creator and their children during any period of incapacity prior to death. At death, the trust ensures that beneficiaries receive assets without going through probate.
3. Estate planning. While you are planning to marry is a good time to check on account titles, beneficiary designations and powers of attorney, both medical and financial. Couples should review their estate plans to be sure planning reflects current wishes. This will go a long way to avoiding fights between the respective families who just recently joined together.
4. Check beneficiaries. Especially after divorce and before a remarriage, check beneficiaries on 401(k)s, pensions, retirement accounts and life insurance policies. If you marry, state law may require you to give some portion of your estate to your spouse or otherwise affect your ownership of property. In many cases, this can be addressed by a prenup, but you still want to consult an estate planning attorney to guide you through any changes to beneficiaries.
5. Medicaid Planning. On the negative side, you should consider the likelihood that either party will need help paying for long-term care BEFORE marrying. Medicaid, which is a government benefit that helps pay for long-term care, has different eligibility based on the marital status of the applicant. Medicaid also expects both spouses’ assets to be used for care which has nothing to do with the prenup. So, for some individuals, it doesn’t make sense financially to marry where one party will need long-term care.
6. Choose fiduciaries wisely. The fiduciaries named in your estate plan are the people who have tasks to fulfill. This could be a trustee, an executor, an agent and so on. Consider carefully who should fill these roles as they may have to be between the two families. Consider the advantages of a corporate trustee, who will be neutral and may prevent tensions with a newly blended family. If an outsider is named as an executor, or acts as a trustee, they may be able to minimize conflict. They’ll also have the professional knowledge and expertise with legal, tax and administrative complexities of administering estates and trusts.